So whether you are married or divorced, gay or straight, black, white or yellow, no one who walks this earth is in a position to be judge over you or you over another.  Judgement is for God alone. But each of you, and each of us is called to take whatever we have, whatever we have done, for good or bad, and use it to witness to the greatest story ever told. This is the ongoing love story between God and his creation, between God and each of his beloved sons and daughters, which no person, no law, no evil can come between. “For what God has joined together, let not man put asunder,” now and always; amen.